A sea of uncertainty

Sometimes we don't do anything else than seeing in others what we would like to have or even live in our own body. It is a feeling that can lock and sadden us. The worst thing is that we are never able to appreciate what we have. All of us commit the same sin, all of us desire what we cannot have. We don't appreciate what we have until we lose it. I don't know exactly why this things happen in our life. I don't know if it is because our current society corrupts self-esteem from surface to foundations. If not, there wouldn't be so many disorders related to physical appearance, or at least, that is what I think.
Appreciating what we have is important. Every moment has to be flavoured and we hate vo thinkg how lucky we are for having certain privileges that others don't have. And with this, I don't want to sound materialistic, I'm being more psychologically talking.
Society imposes certain canons that are very difficult to get if you don't have enough money.
Changing the topic, it has always been said that money doesn't allow you to reach happiness. But this is not entirely true. My theory is that money doesn't make you reach happiness but it gives you enough free time (since you don't need to work if you're loaded!) in order to search it and then find it. Money is not more than an abstract and numeric expression that has been exalted to unsuspected extremes. Especially in Western societies, if you don't have a penny, you are nobody, you don't exist. You have to have a bank account in order to 'suck' and 'be sucked'.
We typically fall under this model, without considering it properly. And yes, I am the first consumer that goes to Fnac to buy a DVD pack. I simply ask myself why. This society makes us this way, evidently. We can negate many things, but we will always have certain characteristics from 'western world'. In this Western where money does make you reach happiness. And it is evident that not everything can be paid with money. But without touching the topic of Healthy, money can emulate all the rest, although being lies.
And we don't have to forget that there are people for everything, and people that would die for having certain things, although those things were made up of smoke.
But the best thing is, with no doubts, when someone is just a loser and, besides, he/she hasn't a penny. Then, either we throw ourselves from a bridge or we go out from society...
Anyway... thoughts and thoughts that don't let you sleep...